It was a life-changing moment for David when five police officers in Nigeria’s biggest city, Lagos, locked him in the back of a van two years ago.

Searching for love?

According to the author: “Recreational sex outside marriage can be good and healthy.” She argues that a fling between two married people cheating on their spouses, with no strings attached, may actually reinvigorate their marriages and make them less likely to divorce. She believes we need a fresh approach to marriage and adultery and accept the culture of ‘playfair.’ The big question then is: what is the difference between an old-style ‘affair’ and a thrilling ‘playfair’?

Normally, Tuoyo tried to initiate sex a couple of times a week. I think he’d love it every day, but I only responded about twice a month – and that’s usually because I can sense he’s getting frustrated,” explained Andria. “While I loved Tuoyo and still found him attractive. I was usually so tired, all I want to do in bed was sleep.

I was almost ready for the office when my door-bell went persistently. Annoyed that the driver ‘s been locked out by the maid again, I went to the door with my face half made-up. The man standing on my door-step looked as though he’d been given a thorough beating by a gang of armed robbers.