By Bunmi Sofola DENIKE’s life was a blessed life.  She lived in an imposing five-bedroom home – a house surrounded by a beautiful garden where she and her three children relaxed most afternoons.  Her husband earned a lot of money running a lucrative haulage business and Denike had to leave her air-hostess job to go into […]

By Bunmi Sofola You wake up every morning wondering what ‘crimes’ you’ll commit today, and how your husband will punish you”, Tina, a victim of a violent husband laments.  “A punch in the face for asking him for money for the children’s school fees?  A slap in the face for saying hello to an old […]

Dear Bunmi, I’ve now met a very responsible man and we are talking marriage. But I have no clue as to how to stay faithful to just one man.

By Bunmi Sofola Mention the words ‘bottom power’ and what comes to mind is the picture of a ruthless ambitious woman, ready to sleep her way to the top.  And it doesn’t matter who with.  Amanda, now in her 40s, was not born poor, so had no excuse all those years for falling for Sam, […]

“But I don’t care. They don’t live with me. I need you to advise me on what to do, but I assure you, Dear Bunmi, I won’t give this man up without a fight!”

By Bunmi Sofola TO re-route male attention south wards from her boobs, Margaret confessed she’s tried wearing baggy black T-Shirts and vice-like sports bras to no avail. A cute and very intelligent computer analyst, she told me recently that: “I’ve tried everything to divert the opposite sex from staring at my rather ample chest. But […]

“Dear Bunmi, I’ve always had strong feelings for her ex. And often used to see him looking at me in ‘that’ kind of way”

OPEN marriages work when one partner, usually the wife, turns a blind eye to her husband’s shenanigans. In most cases, the husband is usually careful not to push his luck by always flaunting his trophies.

By Bunmi Sofola Did you just suddenly wake up one day, look at yourself in the mirror and say: “My God! I’m getting old!” Or did the realisation creep in on you until you just can’t ignore it? Roli, now in her late 50s used to be a model and now runs her own modelling […]

“Dear Bunmi, it’s one thing to be bedding a casual girlfriend, but not a daughter-in-law! She said she loves my son and keen on marrying him”