By Bunmi Sofola THE Nigerian culture is of ten rooted in diplomacy, especially when it has to do with polygamous relationships.  Eight cases out of ten, it is the first wife that’s left gnashing her teeth after the death of her husband.  A few weeks ago, Bola, a good friend, had a get together party for […]

FOR a man who just turned 30, Joel should be at his most virile.  Tall, handsome with a well-paid job, he admits he’s never had any difficulty attracting the opposite sex.  His problem is that when he wants to have sex with a woman, he needs up to two Viagra pills to perform.  The blue tablets […]

“To be faithful ‘till death do us part’ might be a wonderful idea, but there is plenty struggle – and slip – along the way”

“The truth is, no generation likes to imagine their parents making love. It is built into us not to consider older people – those over 60 – as sexual beings”

I learned a few months later that he did another one right in his room under my roof. The girl was one of his friend’s girlfriends