The need to stop equating sex with love
By Bunmi Sofola Some women’s sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction. Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame? Abibat’s reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. The only way she could have been interested in her was to spread […]
‘Love match’ apps rival traditional matchmaking in Pakistan
Pakistan’s traditional matchmakers play a revered role in moulding daughters into potential brides, but marriage apps marketing themselves as halal are offering women a new route to finding a husband.
It’s now okay for men to wear lip gloss!
By Bunmi Sofola It’s no longer news that a lot of women today would give an arm and a leg to look their best all the time, forever spending fortunes on cosmetics, clothes and attending expensive gyms. It stands to reason, therefore, that today’s man has to make more efforts towards not only netting the […]
Dear Bunmi, I’m depressed my ex is re-marrying
Dear Bunmi, I still wear my wedding ring, our wedding picture is still on display in my flat, and I’ve never had another relationship
Dear Bunmi, how do I stop stealing?
‘Now that I’m married with a decent job, I’m still doing it. I get a kick out of stealing my husband’s money, at times, and things that belong to my friends’
The embarrassment of bringing home a younger lover to your daughter!
By Bunmi Sofola When I met Greg at a workshop recently and realized he was only 29, I lied I was in my 30s when the fact is, I was over 10 years older,” confessed Theresa as she gloated over her latest conquest. “My friends urged me to go for it – to enjoy it while […]
