Can a career woman really do without a man’s love?
By Bunmi Sofola HAVE you readers noticed the new and growing breed of ‘forever singles’? It consists of a band of empowered, independent women who don’t want to be defined by a relationship. Not for them nights slumped on the sofa trying to pacify a screaming kid whilst their man snores in front of Super […]
Dear Bunmi, my friend’s sleeping with my husband
Dear Bunmi, so close that her brother and my first daughter are currently going steady
What if your children don’t take to your new lover?!
By Bunmi Sofola IT stands to reason that with the spate of divorce the society now witnesses and the number of unwanted pregnancies, single parenthood has come to stay. The sad picture is that, unlike in the old days when single parents were mostly widows who couldn’t be considered young, a lot of single parents today, […]
Are first borns really cleverer than their siblings?
By Bunmi Sofola What kind of a person do you imagine when you think of a conscientious, hardworking conformist? A proud brother or sister who shoulders responsibilities with or without encouragement? What if you were to be asked which member of your family is the most extroverted or the naughtiest? Do you think of your younger […]
Dear Bunmi, I moved out, he moved his lover in
Dear Bunmi, to teach him a lesson, I moved out for a few days. On the day I left, my husband moved another woman into our matrimonial home
When revenge could be devastating and nice!
By Bunmi Sofola You have been used and dumped by your partner and you’ve hurt terribly. Now you consider your next line of action. Should you walk away with your head held high or let your emotions get the best of you by plotting revenge? After almost three years of living with her partner, Roy, Juyin […]
