Relationships

Put your wife down at your peril!

Put your wife down at your peril!

By Bunmi Sofola LARA had often moaned that someone else had got the life she was supposed to have.  We were mates at the secondary school and have remained close decades after we left.  A fairly brilliant student, we were all mildly surprised when she opted for matrimony.  Within the spate of a decade, she’d not […]
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Why open marriages work for some!

Why open marriages work for some!

By Bunmi Sofola OPEN marriages work when one partner, usually the wife, turns a blind eye to her husband’s shenanigans.  In most cases, the husband is usually careful not to push his luck by always flaunting his trophies.  In a few cases, however, wives have been known to forgive the humiliation of a serial adulterer all […]

A man who raises his fist to a defenceless woman needs psychiatric help!

A man who raises his fist to a defenceless woman needs psychiatric help!

By Bunmi Sofola You wake up every morning wondering what ‘crimes’ you’ll commit today, and how your husband will punish you”, Tina, a victim of a violent husband laments.  “A punch in the face for asking him for money for the children’s school fees?  A slap in the face for saying hello to an old […]