Relationships

The need to stop equating sex with love

The need to stop equating sex with love

By Bunmi Sofola Some women’s sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction.  Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame?  Abibat’s reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. The only way she could have been interested in her was to spread […]
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Time on your hand?  Why not give your love life the A – Z boost!

Time on your hand?  Why not give your love life the A – Z boost!

By Bunmi Sofola RECENTLY, I had been inundated with requests from you readers on how to improve your love life.  And what better time to start than now to relieve the stress of the pandemic and the economy?  I was musing on this when I came across an A to Z guide to a sexier you […]

Friends who would try all tricks to poach your man!

Friends who would try all tricks to poach your man!

By Bunmi Sofola It took a lot of effort for me to don my glad rags recently and attend the engagement ceremony of a colleague’s daughter.  We’d been quite friendly in the finance company I worked with for some years, but had lost close contact when she left for greener pastures.  We run into each […]

Do women suffer more than men when relationships end?

Do women suffer more than men when relationships end?

By  Bunmi Sofola A couple of years back, I had a business lunch with a powerful female executive of a textile firm. We’d never met before but by the first course, I’d learned that she had a young son, that juggling a demanding job and home life was nearly killing her and that the father […]