Husbands who believe they’re goaded into being violent!
By Bunmi Sofola WILL spousal violence ever go away? Two readers sent in their views recently. One is a married mother of three and the other is a bewildered husband who’s been physically and mentally abused by his wife. “My husband and I were together for nearly ten years,” wrote Ibi, “and he was a […]
She’s using our son as a bargaining chip
Dear Bunmi, About three years ago, against my better judgment, I went out with this girl who was tagged an ‘easy lay’ by the boys. All I wanted was a bite of the cherry, like everybody was having, but she later told me she was pregnant. I denied the pregnancy outright and gave her money to […]
I think I gave him a wrong impression
Dear Bunmi, A group of us from my university went to this hot party and I ended up going home with a very attractive man. We didn’t actually have sex, but we fooled around most of the night. The next morning, I woke up dying of embarrassment, as I was totally naked in bed with this […]
His ex-wife won’t let go!
Dear Bunmi, I met my husband five years ago when he was separated from his wife. As soon as his divorce went through, we got married and his 16-year-old son now lives with us. He rarely sees his mother and she seldom calls him. They also have a 17-year-old daughter who opted to live with her […]
The modern-day wife who has little or no respect for her husband!
BARBARA Taylor Bradford, renowned author of blockbusters like Woman of Substance and its sequel, once said she was appalled by couples who row in public. She wrote: “When I open my mouth to say something, I edit my answer before it leaves my lips.” According to her, her husband, Bob, is a terrible time keeper who […]
Embrace polygamy, stop killing men out of jealousy, rage — General Overseer, Elebuibon tells women
General Overseer, Peers of Heaven Society, Chief (Mrs) Oyelola Elebuibon has stressed the need for women in Africa to embrace polygamy rather than resorting to killing their husbands.
