The need to stop equating sex with love
By Bunmi Sofola Some women’s sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction. Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame? Abibat’s reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. The only way she could have been interested in her was to spread […]
Dear Bunmi, he’s never had sex!
Early in the year, a new man joined the firm I worked with and we fell in love. He has a position slightly senior to mine and is a very witty and affectionate man. We kissed but he never seemed to be more amorous. I eventually asked him why and he sheepishly confessed he’s never had […]
Dear Bunmi, my aunty’s husband is too demanding
I am currently studying to be a trained teacher at a college of education. My parents are not very well off, so my aunty agreed for me to stay with her as her house is very close to the college. Not long after I moved in with her, her husband started toasting me. Read Also: #wahalabelikebicycle: […]
Why can’t older women flaunt their sex appeal?
By Candida Some few weeks back, I wrote about how a handful of senior girls are often inappropriately dressed at parties, failing to admit glamour for them has passed its sell-by-date. A few readers were outraged by my views whilst some believed women over 50 shouldn’t ‘flash’ their boobs and legs. “They ought to dress with the […]
Put your wife down at your peril!
By Bunmi Sofola LARA had often moaned that someone else had got the life she was supposed to have. We were mates at the secondary school and have remained close decades after we left. A fairly brilliant student, we were all mildly surprised when she opted for matrimony. Within the spate of a decade, she’d not […]
Escapades of a typical ‘Area Father!’
By Bunmi Sofola As soon as Terry walked into his lavishly furnished home at his usual time of 8p.m. or thereabout, his wife was waiting for him. His best food was kept hot in the food warmer, his favourite bottle of wine nesting in the fridge. This was late last year when Covid-19 was virtually unheard of. […]
