Relationships

When revenge could be therapeutic!

When revenge could be therapeutic!

By Bunmi Sofola HELL might have no furry like a woman scorned, but some have found ways of making the pain more bearable by seeking revenge.  When Rele moved in with her boyfriend of 18 months, she was ecstatic.  But, I warned that living together seldom lead to marriage.  That where it did, the marriage […]
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Why you need to get your love-life back!

Why you need to get your love-life back!

IF your love-life is flagging,you’re always advised to change your partner! A bit drastic, but it could be extremely inconvenient socially but there is one thing you definitely ought to try first—that is changing the background. Many couples who have made love year after year in the same bed have discovered that their sex lives are mysteriously revitalized when they go on holiday or stay in a hotel.

When did you realise you were approaching your sell-by-date?!

When did you realise you were approaching your sell-by-date?!

By Bunmi Sofola Did you just suddenly wake up one day, look at yourself in the mirror and say: “My God! I’m getting old!” Or did the realisation creep in on you until you just can’t ignore it? Roli, now in her late 50s used to be a model and now runs her own modelling […]

Don’t be obsessed with having a child

Don’t be obsessed with having a child

According to her, no matter what you do, you might not get pregnant without the right help, “knowing you are doing everything you can will allow you to get on with the rest of your life and, importantly, enjoy baby-making”, she says. Here is a selection of the tips she gave in her book: Getting Pregnant Faster:

How common are ‘Surrogate’ fathers?

How common are ‘Surrogate’ fathers?

In the mean time, the boyfriend whom his loving wife had had for ages, had been telling anyone who cared to listen that but for him, my uncle wouldn’t have had an heir as the first child, now married is a female. What could the family do about this embarrassment? Nothing. All you have to do is compare the boy’s looks with the braggart and see a striking resemblance. My uncle’s saving grace is that he is fair too, but not as chubby cheeked as his so-called son.”

My pregnancy is bound to disappoint my mom!

My pregnancy is bound to disappoint my mom!

I’m just over 20 and my boyfriend is a couple of years older. He has a decent job with a manufacturing firm and I work as a Secretary/Receptionist for a group of lawyers.