Relationships

The need to stop equating sex with love

The need to stop equating sex with love

By Bunmi Sofola Some women’s sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction.  Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame?  Abibat’s reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. The only way she could have been interested in her was to spread […]
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He thinks I’m cheating on him

He thinks I’m cheating on him

My boyfriend complains and sometimes gets upset that my vagina is looser than other times. He thinks I’m cheating, but I’m not. I lost my virginity to him when I was 19 and we are planning to get married when I graduate from the University. Now, I’m 22 and we are still an item and this problem is surfacing. What’s going on?

I’m afraid of leaving my girlfriend after sleeping with her

I’m afraid of leaving my girlfriend after sleeping with her

I was her first, she wasn’t my first and she seems to be incredibly emotionally attached to me.
Considering that she is religious, although our sex was fully consensual, I am still afraid of what her stance could be if I broke up with her.

Women who tend to carcass

Women who tend to carcass

Though an uncle, I’d never liked his lifestyle. So, for many years, I’ve watched him from afar, not really interested in having a close relationship with him. Here is a man whom God had blessed with almost everything needed to live a moderately good and happy life but who with his own hands had ruined things for himself. Uncle Rufus had left the Nigerian Army when I grew up to know him.

The clothes you wear could be dangerous to your health

The clothes you wear could be dangerous to your health

Skinny jeans: Jeans that grip tightly around the waist, hips, thighs and calves can make a normal walking action impossible. If you are not able to take bouncing stride, you lose the shock-absorbing qualities of a natural walk. This can create undue pressure in the joints. Wearing a tight belt could exacerbate the problem, triggering leg pain. And don’t sit for long periods with your phone in your back pockets, the imbalance caused by having one buttock higher than the other could cause back and hip pain.

Sex with my boss was good but I regret it

Sex with my boss was good but I regret it

I’m a secretary and made an irrational decision nine months ago to sleep with my boss. He was years older but extremely sophisticated and sex with him was good. So was sex with my husband. My lover is happily married, so what we had was a fling. But why was I attracted to another man when I love my husband? My boss has since been promoted and he now heads a branch office. The affair is more or less dead. But why did I have it?