It sounds like you are feeling guilty for what you did. It must be hard to keep these feelings hidden from your boyfriend. We all make mistakes, and they can help us to learn about relationships. No one knows automatically how to be the perfect girlfriend or boyfriend. Most adults are still trying to work it out! While you may be absolutely positive that you will not cheat on your boyfriend again, think about how you would feel if the situation were reversed. Would you want to know if your boyfriend had sex with someone else? Or how would you feel if you heard it from someone else?

But the wonderful thing about masturbation is that you can’t catch a disease from yourself (or we must already have the disease). Sexually transmitted infections (STI) have to be caught from someone who has the infection.

My husband gets a load of kicks from flirting with other women. For the eight years we’ve been married, I’ve watched him chat up women and had countless nights anxiously waiting for him to come home from his night-crawling. Now, after his last affair where his latest girlfriend insulted me to my face in his presence, I’ve decided I can no longer live with him.

My mother-in-law has always interfered in my relationship with her son. Ever since I gave birth to our son three years ago, she’s become much worse. She criticizes all my choices and says the clothes I buy for my son are cheap and second-hand.

I recently made love to a woman 11 years older than me and it was the best night of my life