Husbands who believe they’re goaded into being violent!
By Bunmi Sofola WILL spousal violence ever go away? Two readers sent in their views recently. One is a married mother of three and the other is a bewildered husband who’s been physically and mentally abused by his wife. “My husband and I were together for nearly ten years,” wrote Ibi, “and he was a […]
Dear Bunmi, I want to lose my virginity
“There is absolutely nothing stopping you from getting pregnant when you have sex, be it your first or your hundredth”
Dear Bunmi, my ex is married but she’s paying me for lovemaking
“She never promised anything more than the good times you can give each other. Make the most of it but don’t forget to leave room for a more lasting relationship, if you intend to re-marry”
How to always be one step ahead of your cunning mother-in-law!
By Bunmi Sofola EVERY time Ireti visited her mother-in-law, her teeth were always on edge. Ruth, her mother-in-law is now in her mid 70s, frail and ailing, but as full of spite as when Ireti married her precious son 15 years ago. “Ruth and I had always been at war,” confessed Ireti, “but Gboye, my […]
Men who compete with their babies over breast milk!
SOME years back, when I first learnt of ‘adult nursing’ I was greatly amused. Was there no depth these men would not sink in their fixation with boobs? Now they’d carried it off to a ridiculous extent. “Adult nursing” is the term used for men who enjoy being breast-fed by a nursing mother! According to James, […]
Dear Bunmi, my girl is so experienced…can I trust her!
“Concentrate on the fact that she’s happy with you and you alone. If she enjoyed her previous life so much, she wouldn’t now be with you, would she?”
