I have been called all kinds of names. “Husband snatcher,” “Ashawo,” “home breaker”…name it and by fellow women. Much as it hurt at the beginning, I am now the one gloating at all the name-callers, “Eat your hearts out, bitches!”

Everyone has their favourite things in the bedroom, whether it’s having their ears nibbled or their feet tickled.  But they’re almost always too embarrassed to tell

The next day, she was her chatty self again. She said we were better off forgetting what happened the previous night

One evening, my mother-in-law was baby sitting and I came back to see her smack my son for refusing to go to bed. I told her not 5o come to the house again.

By Bunmi Sofola You’ve been seeing your man for, say, six months and the lust-ridden sex marathon you first embarked on has now slowed down to once or twice a week.  So what are you going to do now?  Stay at this stage forever?  Or plan on having more a night of mind-blowing sex which […]

Some few weeks back, I wrote about how a handful of senior girls are often inappropriately dressed at parties, failing to admit glamour for them has passed its sell-by-date. A few readers were outraged by my views whilst some believed women over 50 shouldn’t ‘flash’ heir boobs and legs.

She asked me to warn my wife and keep her in check, as she’s just discovered my wife bolting out of her matrimonial home — that her husband has confessed to sleeping with her.

By Bunmi Sofola Throughout the years I lived with my mother, I was never in doubt she hated me.”  Shenee, a 43-year-old industrial nurse said, as part of the reason why she refused to attend her biological mother’s funeral.  “She had me at 19 when she got pregnant for a fairly well-to-do businessman who ended […]

He believes I’ve always indulged in secret affairs and has compiled a list of suspects, which includes my former boss, a friend’s husband and my new boss!

This is a situation where honesty isn’t the best policy – your colleagues may resent being taken for a ride.

“Instead of being sorry and wanting to make it up with me, he just seems angry that I’ve ruined this friendship for him”

AREN’T our women a bit over the top in the way they dress these days?”  That was Kay as he breezed into my office looking a bit worn around the edges.  He’s currently heavily involved with Bomma, an older friend years younger than he is, but had also met Rose, one of the participants at […]

By Bunmi Sofola Bolaji is a cherished friend I’ve known for years and he loves a good gossip.  Most of all, he’s learnt to laugh at himself from time to time no matter at what cost.  It’s always a pleasure to listen to him on the few occasions he finds the time to phone.  When […]

By Bunmi Sofola A while back, I toyed with the idea of looking into spousal abuse, especially where a woman gives as much as men in the put-down game.  What jogged my memory recently is this letter from a male reader detailing abusive treatment suffered in the hands of his girlfriend.  “My partner and I have broken […]

The wife of Anambra Governor, Mrs Nonye Soludo, says genotype and blood group match tests are key to healthy procreation in marriages.