My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and almost 2 months. We have had many problems in the past. But now he talks to another girl who was always flirting with him and he usually flirts back. The thing is that both of us are big flirts by nature.

It’s indeed bad to hear what you have been through and the impact it is having on you going back to school. You have a right to feel safe at school and it is understandable that having to see someone who has already abused your rights when you were in a relationship would make you uncomfortable.

He’s telling me that he is trying to change but I’m scared of making a mistake by giving him all my trust and then getting my heart broken, like recently. I need your advice and I need clarification on if I made a mistake by getting back with him multiple times.

My boyfriend complains and sometimes gets upset that my vagina is looser than other times. He thinks I’m cheating, but I’m not. I lost my virginity to him when I was 19 and we are planning to get married when I graduate from the University. Now, I’m 22 and we are still an item and this problem is surfacing. What’s going on?

I was her first, she wasn’t my first and she seems to be incredibly emotionally attached to me.
Considering that she is religious, although our sex was fully consensual, I am still afraid of what her stance could be if I broke up with her.

Though an uncle, I’d never liked his lifestyle. So, for many years, I’ve watched him from afar, not really interested in having a close relationship with him. Here is a man whom God had blessed with almost everything needed to live a moderately good and happy life but who with his own hands had ruined things for himself. Uncle Rufus had left the Nigerian Army when I grew up to know him.

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I’m a secretary and made an irrational decision nine months ago to sleep with my boss. He was years older but extremely sophisticated and sex with him was good. So was sex with my husband. My lover is happily married, so what we had was a fling. But why was I attracted to another man when I love my husband? My boss has since been promoted and he now heads a branch office. The affair is more or less dead. But why did I have it?

I know I get on well with my boyfriend’s family. We’ve been an item for a few years now, but at a recent party, his dad tried to kiss me after giving me a playful smack on the bum. We’d all had too much to drink but I told my boyfriend about it right away. In the morning, I didn’t make an issue of it as it looked as if both father and son had forgotten about the incident.

AT a recent funeral reception this male face tried catching my eye and when he did he would smile. I gave a tentative smile after a while and he sauntered over to my table. “Sunkanmi?”, I asked, the penny finally dropping! I’d known him for ages. I got to know him through a very dear friend and we were often going out in a group. His girlfriend, Dora, worked with an airline and was always travelling.