I’ll be 20 soon and still a virgin. Some of the peer pressure has come off me in the last year or two and I finally feel ready for my first proper sexual experience.
There are a couple of men in our group who are special friends and who I think are interested in me. There is an older man at our office who is nice and definitely shows interest! For now I’m not 100% sure who to go for. What do you think?
Ajara, by e-mail.
You need to be very sure about this because, once done, you can never become a virgin again. I also wonder what the man at work will think of you afterwards. And if you choose one of the special friends, what about the other one? It does make me a bit sad that you are not planning to lose your virginity in a committed relationship. There really is no rush, you know! And there is no need to compete with your friends. Believe me, when you meet the right man, you won’t need my advice!