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The toy-boy that was the best thing to happen to this cougar!

The toy-boy that was the best thing to happen to this cougar!

By Bunmi Sofola Angela was in her mid 30s when she became broody.  “I began to wonder if I’d ever settle down, and become a mum”, she said.  “To say I’d live life to the full so far would be an understatement.  My 20s and the majority of my 30s had consisted of mild partying, travelling […]
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Daughters who resent their dad’s girlfriends

Daughters who resent their dad’s girlfriends

The most disturbing words in the English language, according to Kenneth, a fifty-something car dealer, are: “I am seeing someone”.  Because yes, it might just be a fling, and yes, the someone might be a delightful, witty person – but what if it isn’t and what if they weren’t?  What if your best friend/ex-husband/daughter’s new partner is […]

The embarrassment of bringing home a younger lover to your daughter!

The embarrassment of bringing home a younger lover to your daughter!

When I met Greg at a workshop recently and realized he was only 29, I lied I was in my 30s when the fact is, I was over 10 years older,” confessed Theresa as she gloated over her latest conquest.  “My friends urged me to go for it – to enjoy it while it lasted.   And […]

A man who raises his fist to a defenceless woman needs psychiatric help!

A man who raises his fist to a defenceless woman needs psychiatric help!

By Bunmi Sofola You wake up every morning wondering what ‘crimes’ you’ll commit today, and how your husband will punish you”, Tina, a victim of a violent husband laments.  “A punch in the face for asking him for money for the children’s school fees?  A slap in the face for saying hello to an old flame?  A […]

Parents who think their children are the greatest!

Parents who think their children are the greatest!

By Bunmi Sofola RECENTLY, Frieda, the head of a leading private school, lamented that modern parents are praising their children to the hilt and bringing up their daughters as if they can do no wrong.   She argued that being showered with too much praise and too many presents is not a good thing for a child […]