Relationships

Husbands who believe they’re goaded into being violent!

Husbands who believe they’re goaded into being violent!

By Bunmi Sofola WILL spousal violence ever go away?  Two readers sent in their views recently.  One is a married mother of three and the other is a bewildered husband who’s been physically and mentally abused by his wife.  “My husband and I were together for nearly ten years,” wrote Ibi, “and he was a […]
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She’s using our son as a  bargaining chip

She’s using our son as a bargaining chip

DearBunmi, About three years ago, against my better judgment, I went out with this girl who was tagged an ‘easy lay’ by the boys. All I wanted was a bite at the cherry like everybody was having, but she later told me she was pregnant. I denied the pregnancy outright but gave her money to […]

Hubby has a second family

Hubby has a second family

I’ve been married for 16 years and we have three children. I recently learnt from a family member that my husband had a secret family who lived close to her friend’s house – and that the woman had two children for my husband.

I shouldn’t have strayed with her friend

I shouldn’t have strayed with her friend

Early this year, my wife found out that I was having an affair with a very close friend of hers and she was completely devastated. This friend of hers was in a fmancial mess and came to me for help.