Relationships

The need to stop equating sex with love

The need to stop equating sex with love

By Bunmi Sofola Some women’s sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction.  Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame?  Abibat’s reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. The only way she could have been interested in her was to spread […]
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I’m done with this guy

I’m done with this guy

I have been dating my guy for five years but things are not working out as they should. We have been having conflicts . I don’t think that I love him anymore! My friends think I should take things easy and give the relationship another chance but I’m confused. What should I do?

She’s using our son as a  bargaining chip

She’s using our son as a bargaining chip

DearBunmi, About three years ago, against my better judgment, I went out with this girl who was tagged an ‘easy lay’ by the boys. All I wanted was a bite at the cherry like everybody was having, but she later told me she was pregnant. I denied the pregnancy outright but gave her money to […]

Hubby has a second family

Hubby has a second family

I’ve been married for 16 years and we have three children. I recently learnt from a family member that my husband had a secret family who lived close to her friend’s house – and that the woman had two children for my husband.