By Bunmi Sofola A new book claims that testosterone could be the secret weapon every middle-aged woman needs in the fight against not just a flagging libido, but the entire aging process. From a revived sex life to plump skin, strong nails, abundant hair, a youthful figure and sharp mental skills, the hormone can improve […]

My husband, Made, a surgeon, was 56 and at the end of a 27-year marriage when I met him five years ago”, recalled Susan when recounting her experience as a step-mother to three hostile children from her husband’s first marriage. “I was 43, with a 10-year old daughter from a previous relationship; he had three daughters ranging in age from late teens to early 20s.

By YETUNDE AREBI The birth of Feminism was made possible as a result of education, industrialisation and technology which combined with other elements to create a new individual consciousness, especially for women. Today, the average female is no longer an epitome of the meek and mild sheep. She has come a long way to claim […]

Dear Bunmi, After just a few years of trying my wife is finally pregnant and we are both overjoyed. The problem is that we both smoke. I’ve offered to give up smoking to encourage her to stop for the health of the baby but she doesn’t seem to have the will-power. She also doesn’t believe […]

I’ve been sleeping with my boyfriend’s father for a while now and I’m pregnant and the baby could be his. The thing is, I’ve also been sleeping with my boyfriend. I’m scared as I’m only 19 and an undergraduate. I know what I did was wrong, but I don’t know what to do about it. My parents will kill me if they find out. Please help.

By Bunmi Sofola Dear Bunmi, I am in my mid-twenties and have been friends with Sharon since our secondary school days. She is a lot prettier than I am and has no difficulty getting boyfriends. I, on the other hand, am the reserved type though I’ve had my share of boyfriends. Late last year, we […]

I got married a couple of years ago to the man of my dream. But after the marriage, instead of moving on with my new life like I had planned, my ex came back into the picture. He texted to tell me how happy he was for me but instead of that being the end of it, we decided to meet up for some ‘closure’ and found ourselves in bed together. My husband suspected something was going on between us both and kicked me out.

Some people love to pair off like lovebirds while others like to fly solo. There’s nothing wrong with savouring your independence, as long as you are honest with yourself and your partners about what you want and don’t want out of each connection, sexually and otherwise.

Like it or not, thanks to INEC, you would have been sitting at home praying the presidential election to be concluded early enough for you to make the most of St. Valentine’s Day. However, the shift in the date is pleasant to lovers.

Your ability to have an orgasm through oral sex may be able to teach you a big lesson. Perhaps your partner could incorporate oral sex into your intercourse routine. A woman’s sexual pleasure mostly comes from stimulation to the clitoris which is highly sensitive and full of nerve endings. In fact, there are as many nerve endings in the tip of the clitoris as there are in a male organ!

TRUE STORY OF A WOMAN MARRIED TO A BLIND MAN..They say love is blind and for Barrister Francis Kiafuwa Aifuwa, a broadcaster at Radio Nigeria and Clementina his wife, their love is indeed blind and could not decipher any faults.

Love stories have been told around the world in more ways than one. Many have experienced amazing love stories and marriage proposals in ways that blow the mind. The love stories and experiences differ from person to person

I have just finished at the university and have a circle of friends I had in my undergraduate days,and I cherish their friendship. My mum is one of these go-getting sophisticated women who see nothing in having affairs. My dad has affairs too, as you can see they have an open marriage.

When I first met my current boyfriend, I knew he was untrustworthy. We met at a party he attended with his girlfriend and he hit on me. When I went to the toilet, he followed and virtually armtwisted me into having a quickie with him. We then started seeing each other on and off. He is a charming rogue and sex with him is addictive.

I met and fell in love with a man who is a couple of years younger than I am; then married him shortly after. I’m in my early fifties and my four grown-up children were against him from day one because they didn’t feel enough time had passed since their dad died.