Relationships

Husbands who believe they’re goaded into being violent!

Husbands who believe they’re goaded into being violent!

By Bunmi Sofola WILL spousal violence ever go away?  Two readers sent in their views recently.  One is a married mother of three and the other is a bewildered husband who’s been physically and mentally abused by his wife.  “My husband and I were together for nearly ten years,” wrote Ibi, “and he was a […]
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His ex-wife still has a hold on him

His ex-wife still has a hold on him

I’ve been with my partner for 15 years and comfortable with the filet that he keeps in touch with his ex-wife. Now his ex lives just a few minutes’ walk from us and I’m not happy.

You can make your love-life sizzle again!

You can make your love-life sizzle again!

If your love-life is flagging, you’re always advised to change your partner!  A bit drastic, but it could be extremely inconvenient socially but there is one thing you definitely ought to try first -that is changing the background. Many couples who have made love year after year in the same bed have discovered that their sex lives are mysteriously revitalized when they go on holiday or stay in a hotel.

When your partner refuses to be ‘Born Again’! – Bunmi Sofola

When your partner refuses to be ‘Born Again’! – Bunmi Sofola

For  close to five years, Jide and his wife had tried unsuccessfully for  a baby. Their doctor had assured them nothing was wrong with either of them—all they had to do was let nature take its course. And to help nature along, Ann, Jide’s wife, sought divine intervention.”Almost overnight, my wife turned into a religious fanatic,” Jide lamented. “She no longer cared for the orthodox church we attended because I seldom went with her. Instead, she joined one of these’ charismatic’ churches.

Of marriage and broken cords – Yetunde Arebi

Of marriage and broken cords – Yetunde Arebi

I met this lady whose story you are about to read last week at a friend’s place. Of course you know most times, the gist is about men. Her story, though not peculiar, reminds me of famous musician, TuFace, his women, and some other women I have come across. Do you call them confident women who know how to fight for what they want, or spoilers?