Dear Bunmi, I’ve always wanted to watch people having sex. In fact, it’s my number one fantasy. I’m an average kind of guy with my fair share of sexual experience. Yet, I don’t know why this idea turns me on so much, and I worry that I might be kinky or a sort of pervert. […]

Love Zone

For the average couple, having sex involves about three or four basic positions, the Missionary, the Spoon, and perhaps the Cowgirl and the Doggy. Some might do a combination of two or three of these positions in a session, while most opt for the Missionary and it variants. Culture, societal norms, religion, personal inhibitions and beliefs play a major role in our attitude towards sex and anything related. For instance, some people believe that a person must never be totally naked, regardless of the situation.

WHY do male doctors continue to lay blame for infertility on women? Do women themselves automatically assume infertility is their fault? Or could the driving factor be that invasive and complex fertility treatment for women are hugely lucrative for those carrying them out? These are questions urgently begging for answers as infertility problems continue to rise.

On the average, we spend five years of our life worrying. That’s one hour and 46 minutes every day! But what is it that keeps us tossing and turning in our beds all night? A recent survey by advice website: Really worried.com found that men and women worry about different things. Women spend more time fretting over money and their partner cheating while men worry more about sex. But youngsters worry most of all.