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I want to help him get back his libido

Dear Bunmi,

We’ve been married for quite a while and have two children. Lately, however, my husband’s been having problems maintaining an erection.

Last month, on my birthday, we had a lovely romantic eventing until we got to the bedroom.

My husband was really angry and embarrassed when he again lost his erection, but refused to talk about it.

How can I help him get his libido back?

Dakore by e-mail.

Dear Dakore,

The answer here isn’t to try to get your husband aroused. It’ll just put more pressure on him. He is bound to fail again and the situation would go from bad to worse. It would be more advisable to ask why his loss of erection is happening, because it could be something physical.

So get him along to see the doctor for a full check-up and then he can receive treatment. For better understanding of this problem, you can log on to

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