Put your wife down at your peril!
By Bunmi Sofola LARA had often moaned that someone else had got the life she was supposed to have. We were mates at the secondary school and have remained close decades after we left. A fairly brilliant student, we were all mildly surprised when she opted for matrimony. Within the spate of a decade, she’d not […]
He threatened to pour acid on me, please separate us, wife tells court
A couple in a 20-year-old marriage on Thursday dragged themselves before an Ikorodu Customary Court in Lagos State, accusing each other of infidelity.
She’s no longer the woman I married
My wife no longer turns me on as I don’t find her attractive. We’ve been married for 28 years and are now in our 50s. I’m not a strapping young man but I’ve kept fit and exercise daily while my wife has let herself go. My social club of which she’s a member, has a state-of-the-art gym, but she refuses to join, even though she’s always taking diet pills.
I thought he would ask me to move in
My boyfriend, 30, is kind, mature and has a good job which he enjoys. He isn’t one to go to joints and night clubs like previous boyfriends. He is solvent, having lived with his parents since three years ago when he got divorced.
Can you really tell if a man is serious?
IN the last few years, I’v been out with three men only. I’d discovered that they weren’t the partners I always hoped for. In fact, the last one was having an affair with a so-called best friend behind my back.
Are you encouraging promiscuity?
I don’t agree with your advice on pre-marital love-making. It seems to me that a girl having five lovers or more before wed-lock, which you often suggest, is now the norm, is very risky. With such easy pickings, men must be laughing their heads off with lust – unless they catch a nasty disease along the way. The guilt left behind causes a lot of misery. If love-making is worth anything, it is worth waiting for.
