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My jealousy is affecting our relationship

I’m a man of 30 years and in a wonderful relationship with my girlfriend and we love each other very much, but I can’t get over being jealous of certain little things. It’s starting to get so bad that it is causing arguments between us. I try to control it, but sometimes I just can’t help it. When she tells me any little thing that involves her with another guy, my first reaction is to get mad. How can I get rid of my jealousy, or change it?

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I worry about our vastly different salaries

I have been going out with a wonderful man for a year now and we have discussed having a future together. I work in a finance firm and earn at least four times his salary. We are both in our mid-30s. He enjoys his job but does not seem concerned about climbing the career ladder. He is not as ambitious as I am and has an incredibly laid-back attitude. Could the fact that I earn a good deal more than him cause us any long-term problems?

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I fear for our love life

I am 55 and worried that I will never be able to have sex again. Two years ago, I noticed that my penis had begun to bend because of my diagnosed of peyronies disease. The doctor recommended vitamin E supplements and using a vacuum pump to help with erections, but neither has worked. Now I can no longer make love to my wife.

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Which woman should I choose?

I work for a big company and have been having an affair with my boss’s wife for the past year. They separated about 18 months ago. She is lovely and the s3x is fantastic, but she is putting pressure on me to leave my wife of ten years. I love my wife, but I also love s3x and she is only interested about once a month. I suppose you will say I am having my cake and eating it. If I were to end the affair, I know I would get s3xually frustrated. On the other hand, I don’t know how my boss would react if he found out. My wife would also be devastated if I left her. I don’t know what to do.

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You need never be ‘unfaithful’ again!

A recent letter from a reader who simply called herself Monique left a dirty smile on my face! She wrote: “I married young, in my early 20s and it was no surprise that it hit the rocks a few years after. Though my husband was much older, he expected some standards my young life hadn’t prepared me for. After we split, I had some one night stands and wasn’t in a hurry to get hitched again. As luck would have it, I ran into Tunde at a party, had what I thought would be a fling with him but which later turned into mutual admiration.

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Affairs: How you can eat your cake and still have it!

I have always warned that the easiest way to start an affair is with a person very close to you, be it an in-law or a friend. So, when your instinct tells you your hubby is getting too frisky with your sister, alarm bells should start clanging in your brain. Wahab is the type of man who brags he doesn’t usually look for trouble – but he’s often pushed into having affairs by women who wouldn’t leave him alone. A bit conceited, he said he recently found himself in another spot of trouble he didn’t create.

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