Relationships

When revenge could be therapeutic!

When revenge could be therapeutic!

By Bunmi Sofola HELL might have no furry like a woman scorned, but some have found ways of making the pain more bearable by seeking revenge.  When Rele moved in with her boyfriend of 18 months, she was ecstatic.  But, I warned that living together seldom lead to marriage.  That where it did, the marriage […]
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5 Ways to bring back your sexy!

5 Ways to bring back your sexy!

Think Sexy

UNKNOWN to you, you were born with a seductive, sexy side. If you don’t think you’re sexy there must be a reason why. Find it and get rid of it fast

The big debate: Can you be single and happy?

The big debate: Can you be single and happy?

Is it possible for a spinster to be truly happy or fulfilled without a man or children in her life? About a year ago, Kate Bolick published a controversial book which argues that modem singletons are actually content with their lot. But is the author of Spinster: Making A Life Of One’s Own deluded? Or is she on to something? Taiwo, 52 this year,.bought and read the book almost immediately copies appeared on the bookshelves and told me .sadly, that she wasn’t all that ecstatic about being single in spite of her wealth.

Men should stop acting as if they could get away with AIDS

Men should stop acting as if they could get away with AIDS

SINCE I came back from the UK a couple of years ago, I have had dates with a string of successful, charming, university educated men from lawyers to bankers and showbiz men and, no matter how serious the relationship became, not one of them ever mentioned safe sex or used a condom without my insistence”, said Nina, in her late 20s and a fairly successful IT expert. “Which begs the question: in a city where unbridled hedonism is becoming the norm, what has happened to the AIDS conversation? There is a lack of awareness among young people, and the belief that ‘this won’t happen to me’. And saying STDs are something only dirty people get is unfortunately, a typical view which is scary, considering the sexual health record the country has.

Drawing the line between rape and a one-night-stand!

Drawing the line between rape and a one-night-stand!

WHAT sort of buzz, drives a man to one-night-stand, relationships? Lola had accompanied her friend to her ex-husband’s birthday party, hoping to have the good time she promised. “He has birthday bashes annually”, said Lola, “and my friend has stayed friends with her ex because he was a good provider even when their marriage wasn’t really working.