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‘I regret snatching my friend’s husband’ — Reader

‘I regret snatching my friend’s husband’ — Reader

By Bunmi Sofola A Reader wrote:  I have followed your columns way back from your Punch days when I was in the university.  Most of the times, your articles are so down-to-earth they speak to me – as if you are writing about me.  In one of the editions of Sunday Vanguard a few months back, […]
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Incestous brothers and sisters!

Incestous brothers and sisters!

We are living in a complex and highly sophisticated society in which sexual intercourse is often taken for granted not only among individuals unknown to each other, but even between family members and close relatives. Incidents of incest, defined as “having sexual relations or activity with close family members”, are common today all over the world, but not often reported. That presents a dilemma.

This is bound to boost the male ego!

This is bound to boost the male ego!

Did you know that during orgasm, most of the brain shuts down? That with orgasm, raised levels of what are called the cuddle chemicals – oxytocin and vasopressin – lead to feelings of satisfaction and attachments? A study has found that women who regularly receive semen vaginally are less depressed than those who don’t says Helen Fisher, PhD, author of: Why We Love, The Nature and Chemistry of Romancing love. A bit of an ego-booster for men who are forever jealous of the role that dreaded vibrator is playing in their lover’s life!

He’s not interested in sex anymore

He’s not interested in sex anymore

Breaking up is hard to do, especially when you are the one left wondering what went wrong. This must be a tough time for you, especially considering that you were planning on proposing. It can appear challenging to start over when you thought you had your life all squared away. But start over you must! Have faith and believe in yourself — it will become easier with time.

At what age could a woman be having the time of her life?

At what age could a woman be having the time of her life?

1 6-A YEAR after her first kiss, at an average age of 15, the next important landmark for a girl will be losing her virginity. It seems that the age of consent is still relevant, because for most girls, it’s still 16—a year after the average age for boys.

Of dating sites and faceless lovers

Of dating sites and faceless lovers

While on a visit to my younger brother’s place two weeks ago, a couple of his friends also came around. I knew one of them long ago, so I decided to stay back a bit longer just to play catch on general issues ie, work, women and marriage. I can’t remember how the conversation drifted to dating and social media platforms.

Why did she break up with me

Why did she break up with me

Breaking up is hard to do, especially when you are the one left wondering what went wrong. This must be a tough time for you, especially considering that you were planning on proposing. It can appear challenging to start over when you thought you had your life all squared away. But start over you must! Have faith and believe in yourself — it will become easier with time.

Help he’s not interested in sex anymore

Help he’s not interested in sex anymore

I have been married for five years and have two boys. I am still the way I was before child-bearing. My shape and slim looks are still intact and many people who don’t know still see me as a hot spinster and I always tell the guys that I’m happily married and they should stay off. But an important issue is shaking the foundations of my marriage.My husband has had little or no interest in sex for about a year.

My toy boy humilated me

My toy boy humilated me

A while back, I got together with a 28-year-old man I met through a friend. He’s a very good-looking man and the sex was mind-blowing. I am 39 and married with three children. It was my friend through whom I met this guy that told me he would soon be getting married. As you can imagine, I was devastated. When I asked him, he simply cut off all contact with me. I’m really hurting. How could he do that to me?

She used her friend’s teenage son as her sex toy!

She used her friend’s teenage son as her sex toy!

Nkechi, a divorced mother of three boys was at work when Benson, her partner rang her mobile. “I need to talk to you urgently”, he said. “What for?” joked Nkechi, “can’t wait till we both get home?” “This is serious darling,” Benson said, “I don’t want you to hear this from any of the boys.

Why do my parents still spoil my 34-yr-old  brother?

Why do my parents still spoil my 34-yr-old brother?

My elder brother is 34 and lives at home with my parents, who have pampered him all his whole life. This has always made my blood boil, especially now that one of his casual girlfriends has a child by him. My parents have no financial help from him and watch his son while he sleeps off hangovers. It’s doubtful if he makes anything from the contracts he lies he’s after.