Is it justifiable by any standard to succumb to a relationship with a man who is already hooked to another woman? Does it matter that it has become so common and every single lady you know is doing it? Is it justifiable? You have seen homes broken and relationships rubbished for that fact but is it fair to be the one responsible for a broken home? Have you put yourself in the other womanâ€™s shoe? You are doing it now.Read More
â€œI tried to shut the door in his face, but he went berserk. Booting the front door open, he pushed his way into the flat.â€™ I love you Melisaâ€™, he wined, â€˜and Iâ€™m not leaving your house until you admit you love me tooâ€™ His eyes were bulging. He looked really demented. If I didnâ€™t get him out of the flat soon, Seun would come back and find out about everything.Read More
SYLVIA admitted that her parentâ€™s marriage and the stoic way her mummy yielded her position as the first wife to a much younger and ambitious woman prepared her for the way she handled her relationship with men.Read More
So, every girl you know is doing it and you think itâ€™s cool. Besides, they have goodies to show for their philanderings . You have heard all the talks about aristos being bread-winners and you can even keep a normal relationship while you keep your married man boyfriend and that seems normal since you are having the best of both worlds.Read More
Felicia didnâ€™t understand what was happening to her at a tender age of nine. All through the night, she had a turbulent time trying to get some sleep. Aside the pains in her stomach that was almost driving her crazy, she also noticed something strange, tickles of blood on her underwear. As she tried to search for any possible injury on her skin, the blood kept coming.Read More
ITâ€™S often said that you never know a partner until you live together. For almost two years, Deola and Cletus not only courted, they lived in each otherâ€™s flat. When Cletus eventually proposed marriage, Deola had no problems whatsoever accepting to be his wife.Read More
Different strokes for different folks. But itâ€™s all a personal choice, it seems. While some agree that there is nothing wrong getting pregnant before marriage, others frown at it, from different standpoints. If you were caught in such a dilemma, what would you do?Read More
So, every girl you know is doing it and you think itâ€™s cool. Besides, they have goodies to show for their philanderings . You have heard all the talks about aristos being bread-winners and you can even keep a normal relationship while you keep your married man boyfriend and that seems normal since you are having the best of both worlds. Do you consider the consequences?Read More
ENO has been a non-conformist all her life, so this eventful day, she waited patiently at the VIP lounge of the local airport, fuming at the unnecessary delay in her flight when she noticed this young chap in his late thirties saunter towards where she was. Eno is in her late fifties. Curiously, she glanced at the seemingly shy man as he perched on a seat next to her. The conversation was stilled at first until Eno let it drop that she had an engagement at the Port Harcourt branch of the motel she ran. â€œHe instantly became interested in what I had to say and was chatting away as if heâ€™d just discovered his tongue,â€ Eno recalled. â€œWhen we eventually boarded the plane, it was inevitable that we sat together.Read More
FROM time to time, I get letters from you readers that are so interesting that I feel I ought to share them with the rest of you. A few days back, a letter simply signed â€œIyabodeâ€ landed on my desk and I couldnâ€™t help chuckling to myself as I read it. She wrote: â€œDear Bunmi, I am one of the regular readers of your articles in The Vanguard every Sunday and I do not even know how fully I can express my feelings about your articlesRead More
ekinat thought there was nothing wrong in dating a man who has a wife. Her father had three wives and her mother was wife number two. Her religion also allows that.Read More
Who should be older in a relationship- the man or the woman? What happens if the woman finds out that the man she wants to marry is younger? Will she go on with the wedding or simply walk away? Should the age difference be an obstacle to true love?Read More
â€œShall we qo somewhere quieter?â€ he now asked, taking my arm. I followed him on my stilettos, ignoring the blister on my left heel and we plonked on two chairs near the door.Read More
Violence at home or in any relationship is a serious threat. A guy who bullies his lady or threatens her at the slightest provocation needs to have his head examined. A woman who destroys everything in the home or smashes windscreens of her guyâ€™s vehicle or other things precious to him is not on the right track. She needs counseling and psycho-therapy just like the guy that destroys or batters a woman to drive home a point.Read More
In the past, the choice of whom one married was tempered by tradition. Although parents have a large role to play in the marital life of their children, most young people would prefer taking the plunge on their own. Can your parents decide your choice of a spouse?
Bridget Amaraegbu has all the answers as usual. Enjoy.