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March 27, 2016

Stop wondering where you “stand” with him!

Stop wondering where you “stand” with him!

By Onozure Dania

Does your man tell you that he loves you or loves spending time with you, but he hasn’t made a real commitment to you yet?  If so, you may be feeling a little anxious about the future of your relationship.

Have you ever been in a happy relationship with a man, and even though things were going well you started to worry about where it’s all going?

This worrying usually starts around the time when you feel that you’re connecting and starting to have strong feelings for him, you’ve naturally become exclusive with him and assume he’s exclusive with you, too.

You have a great time when you’re together, he’s introduced you to his friends and maybe even some of his family he’s met your friends, you’ve spent some holidays together, celebrated birthdays and special occasions, went on weekend trips.

It just keeps getting better and better and it feels really good to be so “in sync” with a guy, but it isn’t long before it dawns on you, you have a very special connection and you want it to last, and because it’s so good, you start to think that maybe you’ve finally found your Mr. Right.That’s why you’re anxious about something going wrong, or about him suddenly “changing his mind” about you.

Maybe that sort of thing happened to you before, or maybe you’ve been hearing too many “horror stories” from friends who have experienced this.

So even though things are going “great” and you’re really connecting, you’re also beginning to freak out just a little.