Relationships

The need to stop equating sex with love

The need to stop equating sex with love

By Bunmi Sofola Some women’s sexual escapades often sound stranger than fiction.  Why does a particular woman seek sex all of the time, with different men losing all sense of shame?  Abibat’s reason was because she thought she was fat and unattractive. The only way she could have been interested in her was to spread […]
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How to cope when you’re years older than your girlfriend

How to cope when you’re years older than your girlfriend

In general, when experts talk about fine-tuning a relationship, they suggest ways both partners can compromise and adjust. Not so with the older man! younger girl pairing. “In testing the waters of male-female love, the girl has to splash—and pay attention to her own strokes,” says Janice a seasoned relationship expert.

Help, I get erection during massage!

Help, I get erection during massage!

This has become an embarrassment to me. I am a young man who lives a happy but often stressful life. I visit a massage parlour during weekends to ease off but I’m worried about what happens when I’m virtually naked and being rubbed all over by another person especially female massage therapistsd

She’s afraid of lovemaking

She’s afraid of lovemaking

I have been dating my babe for more than two years now. We’re both in our twenties and haven’t had sex yet, but during the last year and a half, we tried pretty much everything there is besides it.

Her vibrator comes between us

Her vibrator comes between us

MY girlfriend’s pal just came back from abroad with a gift of a vibrator for her. She was so excited about it that she now seems almost addicted to it. I think she prefers it to me. Even when we make love, she rushes to the toilet afterwards to ‘finish things up properly.’ I feel humiliated.

My husband stole from me

My husband stole from me

I recently got married and although I’ve known my  husband for almost three years, I’m not sure I could trust him completely. Some few weeks back, I withdraw some money out of my bank account and hid it at home in a section of my wardrobe. Later, I went to get it and the money had disappeared I asked my husband if he knew anything about it – afterall it’s just the two of us in the flat.