Dad’s always had the reputation of being a Jack, the lad and has had open affairs the family knew about. Now I have this conviction he is having an affair with my aunt. I’m a guy of 32 and my parents have been married for over 35 years. I thought his philandering days were over but recently, I helped him get on-line and now he seems to be constantly checking his e-mails.

There can be nothing more embarrassing than one of your husband’s friends, and a good family friend, witness your man’s weakness for the bottle. Seki, a usually bubbly mother of two is a social friend I enjoy touching base with from time to time. She’s always struck me as a discontent woman in spite of her happy disposition. In one of our usual chin-wags, she let it slip that her husband was a chronic alcoholic. “Better than a wife-batterer, I tried to console her.

I’m currently married to my childhood sweetheart. In the three years we’ve been married, she’s had a couple of miscarriages and is currently undergoing treatment. In the meantime, this girlfriend I met at the beginning of the year is now pregnant. I was shocked. I told her to have an early abortion but she was furious, insisting she was going ahead with the pregnancy and that I should be man enough to face my responsibilities.

Remember the story of ‘worried guy’ who caught his wife with a vibrator on their matrimonial bed? Well, the interesting thing is that the story has not ceased to generate interest and response since it was published mid last year. In fact, the wife’s response did not attract as much attention as the guy’s even though she had valid points too. To date, I have received over 500 mails from readers wishing to take part in counselling this couple. I intend to keep to my promise as much as possible of giving as many readers the chance to have their…

Who is stronger, a man or a woman? If you say a man is stronger you are correct. If you say a woman is stronger, you are also correct. Both answers are right, depending, of course on the perspective of your reasoning