By Bunmi Sofola (a) Always look on the dark side of life. See the glass as half empty rather than half full, regard changing circumstances as disasters rather than opportunities, always expect things to go wrong, and your negativity will remain intact. (b)Repress your anger. Become accustomed to feeling as if you’re about to explode […]

AS to be expected, the current economic melt-down has created a lot of people who grapple with the menace of the credit crunch— not only have they lost their jobs, the prospect of finding any other, not to talk of one commensurate in remunerations is zilch! When Eunice, a personnel director of an insurance company was asked to reduce the work force by a third, she felt like a real hatchet man. “It was a most heart-wrenching experience doling out retrenchment letters and watching the bleak expressions on the faces of staff who have lost their jobs,” she said sadly. A few weeks later, it was her turn to get the dreaded ‘golden handshake.’ In her wildest dreams, she never even believed she would get the chop.

I’m a single woman in my 30’s and my problem is that I cannot find a man and I honestly have no idea why. I’m attractive and all my friends say I’m a nice person. I’m aware that you can meet a man at any time, not just when you’re out socially on Saturday nights, so I never step out of the house looking anything less than perfect.

When my wife got pregnant, we agreed to prove everyone wrong and have a great sex life despite having a child. Now the baby is here, our resolve has gone out of the window. My wife is tired most of the time and I’m not exactly full of energy myself. What can we do to bring back-oar sex life?

I have a history of girls cheating on me. It’s happened on three different occasions with girls I thought I could trust. I have been seeing a really nice woman for a year now. She knows I’m paranoid about trusting women, but I think I trust her, though I still feel like I need a proof. I have picked up her mobile a few times to look at