March 7, 2017

He’s too big it hurts!

He’s too big it hurts!

Dear Bunmi,

I’ve just met this wonderful man who is clever, funny and sexy. The problem is he’s massive ‘down there’. I’m on the small size so sex is always a bit painful, but this is agony.

I’m frightened to try again. Do you think we have a future?

Jessica, by e-mail.

Dear Jessica,

Don’t panic! You say sex is painful, so I think you may not be producing enough

bellow-the-belt lubrication. Take your time, and instead of rushing to get started,

indulge in a lot of fore play. Relax whilst you do that.

If you need further help, a reputable chemist will recommend some lubricants,  and remember, some positions are better than others. Talk to him about your fears – then have fun discovering ways to make love-making more pleasurable for both of  you. Your bits are designed to accommodate the head of a baby – and I’m sure that  even he’s is not that big!