I think that too much emphasis is placed on sex these days and I’m a bit cynical about relationships. This worries me a lot. I am a 28-year-old girl and have lost count of the number of men I have slept with.

I am a fairly comfortable man financially and I run a thriving computer business. I am married, have children and have had the occasional affair from time to time. However, some few months back I met this girl, who was then a newly appointed secretary in my friend’s office and I started what I thought would be a casual affair with her.

All my friends are always telling me that I should try having sex with a lady who is ten years older than me or more. I am 27 years old and my sexual partners have always been my own age-mates or those younger than me.

By Yetunde Arebi Many linked on to some of the social media platforms would have seen the videos of two Nigerians  girls that went viral late last week. The videos, shot in Dubai, showed the girls declaring allegiance to a female voice heard in the background that they had become her sex slaves as a […]

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