Speaking and Writing with Ruth Oji

The courtesy that’s beyond please and thank you, by Ruth Oji

The courtesy that’s beyond please and thank you, by Ruth Oji

Were you taught in primary school to use the magic words? Most people think courtesy means saying “please” and “thank you”, holding doors for others, not interrupting when others speak, remembering the social graces your parents taught you, and the etiquette that makes interactions flow smoothly and signals you were raised right. Well, that’s not wrong, […]
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Master the 30-Second Elevator Pitch: Your Gateway to Career Opportunities, by Ruth Oji

Master the 30-Second Elevator Pitch: Your Gateway to Career Opportunities, by Ruth Oji

How to craft a compelling introduction that opens doors in business, networking, and beyond You step into an elevator with the CEO of your dream company. The doors close. You have 30 seconds—maybe less—before they reach their floor. What do you say? This scenario represents a very real challenge that professionals and students face daily: the […]

The architecture of achievement: Why clarity, not genius, wins the exam season, by Ruth Oji

The architecture of achievement: Why clarity, not genius, wins the exam season, by Ruth Oji

If you’ve ever sat in a Nigerian exam hall—whether it’s JAMB, WAEC, or those brutal university finals—you know that feeling. The air is thick with tension. You can hear pens scratching furiously across paper, the occasional cough, and the sound of your own thoughts racing faster than you can write. Outside the hall, parents and family […]

Credibility Over Clicks: Reclaiming Professional Integrity in the Digital Age, by Ruth Oji

Credibility Over Clicks: Reclaiming Professional Integrity in the Digital Age, by Ruth Oji

In an era where information travels at the speed of a tweet and attention spans are measured in seconds, professionals across industries face an unprecedented challenge: how to maintain integrity when sensationalism pays the bills. Every day, algorithms reward the outrageous over the accurate, the inflammatory over the informative, and the clickable over the credible. […]

Beyond the podium: The new rules of executive presence, by Ruth Oji

Beyond the podium: The new rules of executive presence, by Ruth Oji

Imagine standing before a room of high-stakes stakeholders. You’ve memorized your data, your slides are polished, and your suit is tailored. Yet, before you speak a single word, the room has already decided whether to follow you or merely tolerate you. In our increasingly digital and distracted world, we often forget that communication is a physical […]

The Invisible Stage: Why the Best Visuals Aren’t Always on Screen, by Ruth Oji

The Invisible Stage: Why the Best Visuals Aren’t Always on Screen, by Ruth Oji

Picture yourself at the front of a conference room. The air conditioning hums at that perfect professional temperature—cool enough to keep everyone alert, warm enough to avoid distraction. You’ve spent three weeks perfecting your slide deck. Every data point has been verified, every transition timed to the second, every colour choice deliberate. Your opening slide glows […]

How to set communication goals that actually stick: A practical framework for 2026, by Ruth Oji

How to set communication goals that actually stick: A practical framework for 2026, by Ruth Oji

Last week, we talked about why communication goals fail. The vagueness problem. The motivation trap. The unrealistic expectations. The lack of accountability. If you recognized yourself in any of those patterns—and most of us do—then you already know that simply setting another goal in January won’t change anything. What changes things is setting goals differently. This […]

Why Your Communication Goals Keep Failing (And What to Do in 2026), by Ruth Oji

Why Your Communication Goals Keep Failing (And What to Do in 2026), by Ruth Oji

Every January, Chidi does the same thing. He opens a fresh notebook-the kind with the inspiring quote on the cover-and writes down his goals for the year. This past January, like the three Januaries before it, “Improve my public speaking” made the list. So did “Network more effectively” and “Write more consistently.” He underlined them. He felt […]

The Art of the Brief Introduction: How to Present Yourself With Confidence, by Ruth Oji

The Art of the Brief Introduction: How to Present Yourself With Confidence, by Ruth Oji

Last week, we talked about the problem of over introducing yourself-that exhausting habit of piling on credentials, experiences, and qualifications until your listener’s eyes glaze over. We explored why people do it (fear of being underestimated, uncertainty about their value) and why it backfires (it signals insecurity rather than confidence, and it drains attention before delivering substance).  […]

Stop Over introducing Yourself, by Ruth Oji

Stop Over introducing Yourself, by Ruth Oji

You know that moment when someone asks what you do, and suddenly you’re reciting your entire professional biography like you’re accepting a lifetime achievement award? The credentials tumble out—your degrees, your certifications, your impressive job title, maybe even that award you won three years ago. By the time you finish, the other person’s eyes have glazed […]

How to write a summary: A complete guide, by Ruth Oji

How to write a summary: A complete guide, by Ruth Oji

Writing a good summary is harder than it looks. You need to capture the essence of something longer; this could be an article, a book chapter, a report. You then distil it into something brief and clear. This skill matters in school, at work, and whenever you need to communicate complex information quickly. A summary condenses […]

Revising and editing your write-up, by Ruth Oji

Revising and editing your write-up, by Ruth Oji

Do the terms ‘revise’ and ‘edit’ mean the same? What do you think? Well, they are sometimes used interchangeably even though they are really two distinct activities writers engage in to improve their writing. What do the terms mean?  On one hand, revising is rewriting, that is, changing words, phrases, sentences, even whole paragraphs in a […]

The Language of Gratitude: How to Speak to Donors with Meaning, by Ruth Oji

The Language of Gratitude: How to Speak to Donors with Meaning, by Ruth Oji

There is a kind of language that carries more weight than grammar or eloquence. It is the language of gratitude. It is the language that transforms a donor from a name on a list into a partner in progress. This week, I have been reflecting deeply on how we speak and write to the people who […]

Giving Your Research a Human Touch, by Ruth Oji

Giving Your Research a Human Touch, by Ruth Oji

Every researcher has felt the weight of communicating complex ideas in a way that keeps readers listening rather than fleeing. It is not enough to have strong findings. It is not enough to work with impressive data. What separates impactful scholarship from silent work is the ability to make research speak like a human. In this article, […]