BY ROTIMI AGBANA
Since time immemorial, love has been a phenomenon that shrouds the mental reasoning of any being, be it rich, poor, educated, influential or affluent. Same is the case of pretty plus-size model, Adaeze Eneh, fondly called ‘Eva’, who has imposed herself as an authority in the things of the heart.
In an exclusive chat with Potpourri, the pretty model averred that it is practically impossible to be in love with two men at the same time. According to her, love is sacred; therefore, once you’re in love with someone, it is impossible to feel the same way about another person.
“If you think you love two people at the same time, you are wrong, because real love allows no entry so it’s only one you love. In physics, to be in two places at the same time would be a miracle; in politics it seems not merely normal.
There are times when I find myself torn between two men but I feel like there must have been a breach at some point. There’s a tiny line between love and lust and I think we get that twisted. You can be in love and there’s room to fall in love with someone else.
Speaking further, she stressed how impossible it is to fall in love with someone else when in love with one person already.
“If you truly and deeply are in love with someone, there would never be any room for distractions. Love starts a feeling, a strong feeling. You may have that feeling for someone and then unexpectedly feel it for someone else. I don’t believe so, no.
You will love one more than the other. It takes time to figure out. The human capacity to love is boundless but love should never be confused with lust. Love is letting go, if you can’t have both people in your life, perhaps the real measure of your love for them is to let them both go. Accepting that you cannot choose, you set them free and if one comes back to you, it was meant to be”, she said unequivocally.