WITH the issue of sex toys springing up from different crannies, the question that boggles the mind would be, Do women really use sex toys in this part of the world? Hmmmm. Interestingly enough, the issue of sex toys amongst women has always brought about bad blood among various people. With a lot of views, some of which would seem to be holier than thou, whether we like it or not, this is an issue women should learn to come forth with and be honest about.

Is using a sex toy just a means to an end or a bright ray of hope at the end of the tunnel.   A marriage saver or breaker? Would we even say it is fun between partners to spice up their sex lives using sex toys? What do you do if you are not getting it from your husband/ partner. Giving the option of having an extra marital affair as a woman and having a sex toy, which is really the lesser of both evil. What are really your options if you are in the mood and your husband is not.

Does the machine do the job or do you go to sleep like that and wake up cranky thereby taking it out on every other person who crosses your path that day.

A lot of women in Nigeria would not be caught owning up to having a sex toy but still it is a given fact that sex toys sell in Nigeria and shops are springing up everyday   that deals in the sale of sex toys. You would discover that American women are more liberated when it comes to issues like sex and sex toys.

When a man shares his fantasies with his partner, do women take the puritan act. Basically, when you think sex toys, you think vibrators and dildos but they are extensive ranges of these products that spices up your relationship/marriage. Step out in style and dare to be naughty with your spouse. Nothing trips a man more than having a woman who is willing to star in his very fantasy and is bold enough to tell her man what her expectations are when it comes to sex. For all you know, you have just saved your husband/partner the effort he would have spent looking for an extra curricular activity.

We live in a society where talking about sex or even sex toys are frowned against. Aspersions are being casted out the moment society finds out any woman dares admit she owns a sex toy, she is treated as an outcast.

Opening up and communicating

Some people might even go as far as calling her a whore. Is she really or was she just bold enough to step out of the mold and state she likes being playful with her partner during sex. Besides if it’s okay with her man, who made us the judge and jury.

If your man seems to be tired of the “missionary act”, both parties should be able to open up and communicate about what you both want so you can have a fun sex life. If it is okay for a man to tell you what he wants from sex, then women need to be more open to their men. You’d be surprised that your man would stay home more often because for him, sex is no longer just a routine.