Dear Bunmi,

My boyfriend and I couldn’t keep our hands off each other and we would want to make the most of our compatibility.

Love

He said it is possible for us to orgasm together, but it takes me a long time to get there compared to him. Do you have any tips to enhance our coming together?

Thanks!

Susie,

by e-mail.

Dear Susie,

The questions some of you ask could be quite adventurous ones! To help you here, I had to ask an expert who told me you’ve got two options. Your man can slow down by stopping thrusting as he gets near climax, withdrawing and holding just under the tip of his organ for a moment until the feeling subsides.         .

Or  you can speed things up for yourself with lots of foreplay. It is a fact that kissing is good for you. A kiss releases stress-relieving hormones, while the extra saliva generated helps prevent tooth decay.

A minute-long tongue-twister burns 26 calories as well. So kiss away so you can relax!

Being tense is bound to prevent your getting your much-desired orgasms as early as you wish.