By Pastor Layi Bamidele

The Bible says if the foundation is faulty,what can the righteous do? The most important aspect of marriage and relationship is for a couple to build a Godly home from the onset of their marriage.

Pastor Bamidele

Where there is love there will be progress,there’ll be peace and things will go well for such a family. A marriage without love and affection is like an aeroplane without an engine. No matter how beautiful an aircraft may look like when there is no engine in it, it looses it’s value.

What do we really mean by the word LOVE?

Love is a big deep affection that runs between a husband and a wife. The couple must be committed to the success of their marriage. It takes a lot of sacrifice for you to enjoy a wonderful homes and relationship. Love can also be referred to as an ingredient that sustains a marriage.

Every successful marriage can be sustained by the way of expressing ones love without reservations to each other. It’s love that is the ingredient required that kept the marriage going even against all odds and storms with also the fiery darts that the devil may throw into the relationship even against all odds.

One thing I have discovered in the recent time about young ladies in particular is that most of them because they have waited for awhile,or because there is pressure from the home front,i mean their family,what happened,they will jump into a wrong ship without looking back, forgetting that those that push them to it will later on abandon them on their way, they are the first set of people that will first apportion blames on them that were you blind?.

Do not marry a man or a woman you don’t love. If you marry a man or a woman all because of the man or the woman is rich, you have missed it, the same way you jumped  in is the same way you will jump out of the marriage. One of the key points of marriage is that you must establish your love and affection for each other first before going to the altar.

Every marriage that will succeed has Love as the key. If you look at the monetary side in going into marriage,when money finishes, marriage will begin to enjoy all sorts of turbulence. In every happy marriage, love is all in all. When you love each other it will not matter to you whether he or she is rich or not. In the book of proverbs chapter ten verse twelve ,the Bible says “Hatred stirred up strifes:but love covereth all sins.

Love beareth all things,love believeth all things, love hopeth all things and endureth all things . It is Love that make the wife of a poor husband to pray for the husbands success than to divorce him. Love will make the husband of a woman who doesn’t cook well, to endure till the wife improve in her cooking.

.Bamidele is General Overseer, Christ Glorious Endtime Evangelical Church, Lagos. [email protected]