Dear Bunmi,

I was stunned but overjoyed when I won a N2 million naira promo of one of the telecoms  companies months back. My name and pictures were in the papers and a few days after my win, my ex-fiancee got in touch and asked to see me again. She was the one who broke off the engagement two years ago and I was devastated when it happened.

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Now she’s told me she’d never stopped loving me. I still love her and seeing her again has brought back all the loving we shared. I’d like to give our relationship another go but I have this nagging feeling she only came back because of the money. She didn’t mention my wind-fall and I haven’t discussed it with her either. What do you think?

Daniel,

By e-mail.Dear Daniel,

Your fiancee’s sudden reappearance after two years apart, and after your fortunes have changed, sounds a bit dodgy to me. You didn’t say why she left you or if any of the issues then, hers and yours, have been resolved. I’ll advise you to take things very carefully. In the meantime, seek some financial advice, invest your money and don’t do anything rash. If your ex can prove in other ways that her change of heart is genuine and not motivated by money, then I wish you every happiness. But tread softly!