Dear Bunmi,

I am in my mid-20’s, quite tall, but a bit on the chubby side. I’m, however, not short of girl friends. What bothers me is my dick. I’ve compared it with other men’s and I’ve long realized that it’s rather on the small side.

love

My girl-friends have not complained to my face. Are they afraid of hurting me? Do you think I can satisfy a woman in bed considering how small my dick is?

A1bert, by e-mail.

Dear Albert,

Men have always been obsessive about the size of their manhood. But they should realise that it is not the size that matters.

In any case, penises are often different sizes when limp, but when erect become a similar size.

As to whether or not you satisfy women in bed, don’t ask me, ask your partners!