By Oluwatosin Folarin

Substance use has continued to be a pressing concern in our society, with many youths experiencing increased risks. In today’s generation, the conversations common among youths are talking about probation, substance use, detention, suspension, and compulsory community services.

The abuse of drugs and other substances and associated crime have driven the considerable rise in the number of youths imprisoned in recent years. A report by the United Nations Office on Drug and Crime in Nigeria indicates that 14.4% (14.3 million) of people aged between 15- and 64-years abuse drugs.

Despite the school system’s efforts and the prevention networks coalition’s input on combating substance use, it remains a pressing concern with far-reaching implications for individuals, families, and communities. We all know the youth development stage is a critical period characterized by curiosity, experimentation, and peer influence. These factors, combined with societal pressures and accessibility to substances, contribute to the vulnerability of youth to substance use.

Yet, we cannot give up on the fight against substance use concerns in our society. We need to strengthen family and parenting relationships with youths to combat substance use concerns. Parenting factors are a significant factor in preventing adolescent substance use. As a parent, how are you ensuring medications are in a safe place that is not easily accessible to your kids? How are you practicing safe smoking or drinking in your home? Do you smoke and drink freely in the presence of your child? Are you having open conversations about substance use with your children, acknowledging their curiosity and the desire to fit in among their peers? When parents talk to their children directly and honestly about alcohol and drug use, they are more likely to influence their decisions about substance use.

Although some parents are exhausted about the youths, some can’t wait for them to turn 18 to have some freedom from parental responsibilities. Parents are tired of the relentless calls and visits from the Department of Children’s Services and parole officers and the financial implications. As much as this is their reality, please hang in there; don’t give up. Acknowledge and appreciate your efforts and the resources you put into it, and don’t give up.Initiating conversations about substance use with youth can be challenging, especially when you are not well-informed.

As a parent or caregiver, it is essential to have the knowledge and skills to initiate age-appropriate conversations with youth. Open, honest communication is one of the most effective ways for parents to connect with and safeguard their children. When children are prescribed medication, it is crucial for parents to explain the purpose of the prescription. It is also important for parents to be proactive and consider how to respond when their child comes home smelling of alcohol or marijuana, or how to address a situation when watching a movie that depicts drug use. Initiating conversations about topics such as overdose requires sensitivity and preparation, and being equipped with the right approach can make a significant difference in guiding and supporting youth.

The prevalence of substance use among youths remains a significant concern, with far-reaching implications for individuals, families, and communities. Despite the challenges, it is essential not to give up the fight against substance abuse. Strengthening family and parenting relationships, along with having open, honest conversations about substance use, are crucial in preventing adolescent drug abuse. While initiating these conversations can be challenging, being well-informed and equipped with the right approach is vital for parents and caregivers to effectively guide and support their children through these critical issues. By fostering a supportive and informed environment, parents can play a pivotal role in influencing their children’s decisions about substance use and ultimately contribute to a healthier and safer future for the youth.