By Ayo Onikoyi

In today’s complex relationship landscape, many enter marriage unprepared, the lack of pre-marital education has become a significant contributor to rising divorce rates and marital dissatisfaction.

Studies show that couples who undergo pre-marital coaching are 30% less likely to divorce, yet such programs remain inaccessible to many. This gap has prompted relationship experts to take action, equipping singles with the tools they need for successful, lasting unions.

Over the years, several relationship experts have contributed significant tools that have helped singles navigate their relationships and prepare adequately for marriage, and one that comes to mind so readily amongst them is the MarryMatics assessment—a comprehensive tool designed to guide singles in evaluating their readiness for marriage and the compatibility of their potential partners. The MarryMatics Assessment offers a structured approach for individuals seeking to understand their preparedness for marriage and the dynamics of their current or prospective relationships. By addressing key aspects such as emotional maturity, value alignment, and long-term compatibility, the assessment provides users with personalized insights to make informed decisions about their marital futures.

The MarryMatics Assessment serves as a proactive measure for singles aiming to build strong, enduring marriages. By fostering self-awareness and encouraging intentional preparation, it empowers individuals to approach marriage with confidence and clarity. This tool not only aids in personal development but also contributes to the broader goal of nurturing healthy, resilient marital relationships within the community and nation at large.

The MarryMatics assessment designed by Dr. Albert Olufemi Oduwole complements the efforts of other experts in the field. Dr. Emerson Eggerichs founder of the Love and Respect assessment tool which helps intending couples pin point communication trouble spots and identify patterns notes that the cycle of love and respect in relationships is foundational for couples intending to get and stay happily married. According to Dr. Emerson, staying happily married is a process not a state, couples must be willing to keep putting in the work needed to achieve perfect harmony. Also, Dr. Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist, has explored the science of love and compatibility having developed the Helen Fisher’s Personality Quiz which has been taken by over 14 million people in 40 countries. Helen created it to test the degree to which you express four broad styles of thinking and behaving, each associated with one of four basic brain systems. This test enables couples understand better the personality of the person that are getting married to. Together, these experts are reshaping how singles approach marriage.

The MarryMatics assessment takes this a step further with its marriage readiness assessment tool, which helps singles evaluate their preparedness for marriage. The MarryMatics platform also includes a training academy, annual conference hosted across countries for couples, and resource hub featuring insightful books such as, “How to Find True Love” and “I Love My Spouse, But…” These resources provide deep insight into building strong foundations for marriage, from effective communication to conflict resolution.

Through the MarryMatics assessment and a global footprint spanning 29 years across 25 countries, Dr. Oduwole continues to advocate for and provide support systems to fostering divorce prevention through several initiatives such as the Exploit tours—Spring, Summer, Winter & fall in UK, UAE, North America, and Africa. These tours have inspired thousands to strive for healthy relationships, while his media presence on platforms like DSTV’s Kingdom Africa and Diamond FM continues to reach millions equipping them with practical resources.

As societal pressures continue to challenge the institution of marriage, the MarryMatics assessment stands as a testament to the power of education, faith, and practical wisdom in building strong, and lasting unions.