But one pertinent issue which seems to arouse great curiosity and, sometimes, surprise is one frequently raised by guys concerning their sex organ.

Often, you get to read such questions like; how do I increase my penis? My organ is too small, or too big! Will I ever be able to satisfy my woman?

Perhaps, the new sexual consciousness and revolution is also taking its toll on the situation. Sex shops are not only springing up in almost all corners of big cities, most of them are smiling all the way to the banks, selling various forms of potions designed at size reduction or enhancement of the sex organs.

Some believe the problem associated with the size of sex organ, particularly in men, is more psychological than physical, while some others insist it is both and is even capable of causing some other problems in relationships if not properly tackled.

As is our style, we decided to tackle this issue headlong by going to town and asking our respondents what they think.

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Chibuzor (28), student, says it’s a win-win situation

There are some men with big sizes who cannot make use of them, while there are some with small, short and stumpy ones who perform very well. It is only a partner that can verify the level of performance of the other partner. And this depends on preference of the individual and not really the size.

I have gone out with a guy before who had a very good sized thing but had no staying power, no sooner does he get into the game, he looses it. Once this happens, you can never get him up again for that day.

I will work on him for several minutes and will hardly get any satisfying results.
I’m yet to know a lady who likes to work on a man without getting commensurate plea-sure or more in return. Not unless she is into it for some other reasons. It then became too frustrating for me to handle and we had to split.

For such a man, if he does not get help with his problem, he may be lucky enough to meet a lady who is not into sex and they will click. With her, even if he tries very hard to last, she will not appreciate him, so he will be safe. Otherwise, he will continue to have problems with his relationships.

Presently, the guy I’m with is not as endowed as that other guy, but he knows what to do. In fact, I am the one who pressurizes him to do the thing after he would have done all the work with his hands.

It’s the only way I can compensate him for the good job he does for me. And with it too, he is good, though I do not get to orgasm that way.

I have a friend who says her boyfriend is thin and long, meaning the circumference is not impressive. But she says he is good none the less. The funny thing is that they often quarrel a lot and I have been advising her to leave the guy because he goes as far as beating her up. But she insists that the guy makes her feel like a woman.

That he satisfies her very well, so she is finding it difficult to leave him.
So, size matters, but not so much as how a guy can use his stuff.

Joy (25), student, can’t condone imperfection                                                                               It all depends on the indivi-dual taste. I don’t see any big deal about the size of a man’s thing. It’s the satisfaction that matters in a relationship. The guy I’m dating now has a small penis, but he knows how to satisfy me.

I have never had cause to complain about his performance. And I think I’m doing my best to please him too. Which is what a relationship is all about in the first place. We are dating to find out if we are compatible.

If we are not, or rather, if I am not getting any satisfaction from him, I would have walked out of it because I am one person that can’t tolerate such short comings in a relationship.

Tina (38), bank manager, says size does matter
Let me tell you an incident that happened long ago when I was in school. There was a lecturer that was always dis-turbing me up to the extent that he said if I didn’t give in to his sexual advances, that he was going to fail me. And that was my final year in school and I couldn’t risk having a carry over.

So, I gave in to his sexual advances. When we now got to the hotel, he asked me to undress, which I did.

Though his penis was big, but when the action started, I was not feeling anything. The thing was just dangling inside of me. So, I just laid there and allowed him to swim. When he was through, I asked him if this was what he has been disturb-ing me for, when he can't even perform.

I can’t explain what happened because he seemed big enough, but I just felt one small thing tickling me. Honestly, I was so annoyed that I insulted him. I asked him if this was all what he could do and had wasted my time. And it was true. I was so annoyed that I forgot that I had done it to negotiate a deal and not for mutual pleasure.

I think this whole thing has more to it than one can easily decipher. There is this theory that I and a couple of my girlfriends used to discuss. In a sense, I think it is true to a large extent. It has to do with the body build, or rather stature of the individual. The theory goes that short men, along with average height and slim guys, all have large size penises.

Huge guys with average body weight too are usually ok down there. But big guys with pot bellies never seem to have much to write home about.

Most men with big tummy don’t have big penises. It is the same theory that goes for short, small, men preferring to date taller or bigger women. Small men are said to like women with big bosoms, bums and thighs, while you will usually see a big or huge man with a very small statured woman. Many big sized men like petite, cute women. I believe it’s a psychological thing.

The small man feels like the king over the big sized woman, while the big man in turn also feels like a king beside the petite woman. One look at a guy, anyone should be able to guess what category the size will fall into.

So, even without getting into action situation, you already have an idea of what you are going for. The difference can’t be too much, if there will be any. So, far, this theory has proven to be correct in most cases. And, I am sure a lot of your readers will agree with me.

Thomas (43), doctor, says that size matters
I have always rated myself as an average sized guy until I met a lady back in my undergraduate days.

Though it was only that one time, the thought still lingers. I’d been chasing after the lady for some time before she finally gave in. You can imagine how excited I would feel the very first time she accepted my invitation to do the thing. Boy, was I disappointed? She told me she was not feeling anything.

I could not believe my ears, in fact, the way she said it so casually, you would think she was a pro. I doubled my effort, changed position, all to no avail. She just laid there like someone relaxing. I was so embarrassed.

I had to abandon the whole thing and just let it go. Even though I am well past that experience now, I simply can’t forget. I used to think the problem must have been from me, but now that I am older, I have had a rethink. The girl was the problem, not me.

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