How could you go on believing lies your lover feeds you!
How many affairs should you over-look before you realise your partner is trying to send you a message by pushing you close to the edge? About a decade ago, Adaobi was in love. Ahmed, her man, was separated from a wife who still lived abroad and against her friends and parents’ warnings, she moved in with her superman within a few months of their getting together.
Dear Bunmi, he’s married but special
I’m divorced with grown-up children and have a decent job. Two months ago, I received a text message from a work colleague saying how he felt about me and some of the things he told me were really flattering. For once in my life I felt really special. In all the years we were married, […]
Dear Bunmi, hubby thought I couldn’t get back on my feet
I am a married woman of 43 with four children. I used to be the Legal Secretary of a company, until I was edged out in a bitter boardroom brawl. As to be expected my confidence took a bashing, on top of which my savings dwindled. At first, I had the sympathy of my husband. […]
The shock of reading about the ‘other woman’ claiming to be the wife!
By Bunmi Sofola As Nikky made her way to her office that fateful Monday morning, she saw a group of some female members of staff clustering round the photo copiers and chattering excitedly. When they saw her, the silence was eerie, and instead of scurrying off to their seats, they looked at her with defiance. […]
Dear Bunmi, he lied he no longer loved his wife
I’m 45 and a divorced mother of two teenage children. Three years ago, I met this man at a wedding and he told me straightaway he was a married man. Despite this, we carried on seeing each other, as I felt safe with him, knowing the relationship wouldn’t go anywhere. He confided in me about […]
Dear Bunmi, did my husband father her child?
YEARS back, my husband had an affair with one of our daughter’s friends. The girl, who was married at the time, became pregnant and had a little girl who is now an adult. Over the years, this girl divorced her first husband, remarried, then divorced again. Now she lives with a new man who doesn’t […]
