I started university this year and I really hate it; I haven’t made any real friends. My course is more difficult than I envisaged and my room-mates are all messy, and they stay up partying into the wee hours. But, most of all, I’m really homesick.  I’m very close to my family and miss them […]

I lost my husband of 20 years to cancer six months ago. Our two children are away in their various universities and I am now unbearably lonely, and feel as though life is passing me by. I’ve tried going out with friends but everyone in the area knows that I’m widowed, so I receive unwanted […]

When we got married, I agreed to stay at home with our four children. So, for the past 12 years I have been a full-time mom, which has been great. But now they’re all at school, I’m itching to go back to work, only my husband is kicking against it. It’s true I want for […]

I never said anything yet to my boyfriend, but I think he is obsessed with abnormally large breasts.  I always catch him staring at women’s chest. I have boobs that are on the small size and his attitude is making me feel inadequate. I have a good mind to ask him if he would rather […]

How many affairs should you over-look before you realise your partner is trying to send you a message by pushing you close to the edge?  About a decade ago, Adaobi was in love.  Ahmed, her man, was separated from a wife who still lived abroad and against her friends and parents’ warnings, she moved in with her superman within a few months of their getting together.