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Dear Bunmi, pregnant at 14!

I’ve just discovered that my eldest daughter, who is 14, is pregnant. I’ve always brought her up to know the importance of safe sex, in spite of whatever sex education she must have been taught in school. As to be expected, I am devastated. I didn’t even realise she and her boyfriend, 16, were having […]
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Dear Bunmi, she wanted love-making with me, not marriage

I lost my wife a few years ago in an unfortunate motor accident and had made up my mind to re-marry. We were married for over 20 years and she was a good mother to our three boys. Late last year, I was introduced to a divorced lady at a close friend’s birthday party, and […]

Dear Bunmi, he boasted, but can he deliver?

I am in my mid-30s and a divorced mother of two. My marriage broke up because I could no longer condone my ex’s constant infidelity. I have a good job and own a flat. The problem is my current partner. I met him last year and he boasted about his erotic conquests right from the […]

#Echoke: Dear Bunmi, I want him as a lover not friend 

A few months ago, I became friends with this great guy. Eventually, we started going out and were into heavy petting. I’ve developed serious feelings for him. We’re together all week the time, but he doesn’t want to have sex because he’s afraid of hurting our friendship. I feel like we’re in a relationship already. […]

Dear Bunmi, why is he playing with my emotions?

Recently, I fell in love with a handsome banker, who I had to interact with, as I too work in a bank. We flirted outrageously and swapped phone numbers and, for months, we stayed in touch. He calls me late at night, after work, and we’d talk for hours. However, when I picked up the […]

#wahalabelikebicycle: Dear Bunmi, I’m love with a married mom 

I’m in love with a married mother of two. Although I’ve never really been married, I’ve had a live-in relationship that produced a son I admire.  Don’t tell me to stop seeing this woman! I love her too much. We meet regularly and, no, we don’t rip each other’s clothes off. Very often we just […]

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