Dear Bunmi

Dear Bunmi, he complained I no longer turned him on

AFTER I had my daughter, my vaginal opening was quite large and a year later, it’s still the same. When my baby’s father and I parted company soon after the birth, he told me it wasn’t as nice to have intercourse with me any more; that the grip was no longer there when he was inside […]
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Dear Bunmi, he boasted, but can he deliver?

I am in my mid-30s and a divorced mother of two. My marriage broke up because I could no longer condone my ex’s constant infidelity. I have a good job and own a flat. The problem is my current partner. I met him last year and he boasted about his erotic conquests right from the […]

#Echoke: Dear Bunmi, I want him as a lover not friend 

A few months ago, I became friends with this great guy. Eventually, we started going out and were into heavy petting. I’ve developed serious feelings for him. We’re together all week the time, but he doesn’t want to have sex because he’s afraid of hurting our friendship. I feel like we’re in a relationship already. […]

Dear Bunmi, why is he playing with my emotions?

Recently, I fell in love with a handsome banker, who I had to interact with, as I too work in a bank. We flirted outrageously and swapped phone numbers and, for months, we stayed in touch. He calls me late at night, after work, and we’d talk for hours. However, when I picked up the […]

#wahalabelikebicycle: Dear Bunmi, I’m love with a married mom 

I’m in love with a married mother of two. Although I’ve never really been married, I’ve had a live-in relationship that produced a son I admire.  Don’t tell me to stop seeing this woman! I love her too much. We meet regularly and, no, we don’t rip each other’s clothes off. Very often we just […]

Dear Bunmi, marriage not as exciting as I thought

I got married early last year, because I was pregnant. I love my husband and daughter, but marriage is not as interesting as I thought it would be. We both have good jobs and my mom helps in looking after the child when I’m away in the office. I also have a fairly well behaved […]

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