‘I regret snatching my friend’s husband’ — Reader
By Bunmi Sofola A Reader wrote: I have followed your columns way back from your Punch days when I was in the university. Most of the times, your articles are so down-to-earth they speak to me – as if you are writing about me. In one of the editions of Sunday Vanguard a few months back, […]
6 ways to avoid Valentine’s Day billing as a man
Most men find it overwhelming to think about Valentine’s Day because it usually means thinking about how many debit alerts their phone will beep.
6 ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day at work
With this year’s Valentine’s Day falling on a working day, there must be plans in place to ensure that the celebration is not disrupted.
Is it selfish to walk out on so much wealth to be with another man?
By Bunmi Sofola DENIKE’s life was a blessed life. She lived in an imposing five-bedroom home – a house surrounded by a beautiful garden where she and her three children relaxed most afternoons. Her husband earned a lot of money running a lucrative haulage business and Denike had to leave her air-hostess job to go into […]
A man who raises his fist to a defenceless woman needs psychiatric help!
By Bunmi Sofola You wake up every morning wondering what ‘crimes’ you’ll commit today, and how your husband will punish you”, Tina, a victim of a violent husband laments. “A punch in the face for asking him for money for the children’s school fees? A slap in the face for saying hello to an old […]
Dear Bunmi, I can’t stay faithful to one man
Dear Bunmi, I’ve now met a very responsible man and we are talking marriage. But I have no clue as to how to stay faithful to just one man.
That affair that helped your career can also ruin your life
By Bunmi Sofola Mention the words ‘bottom power’ and what comes to mind is the picture of a ruthless ambitious woman, ready to sleep her way to the top. And it doesn’t matter who with. Amanda, now in her 40s, was not born poor, so had no excuse all those years for falling for Sam, […]
Dear Bunmi, my sons resent my younger lover
“But I don’t care. They don’t live with me. I need you to advise me on what to do, but I assure you, Dear Bunmi, I won’t give this man up without a fight!”
Could you take your eyes off those boobs for a minute?!
By Bunmi Sofola TO re-route male attention south wards from her boobs, Margaret confessed she’s tried wearing baggy black T-Shirts and vice-like sports bras to no avail. A cute and very intelligent computer analyst, she told me recently that: “I’ve tried everything to divert the opposite sex from staring at my rather ample chest. But […]
Dear Bunmi, I fancy my daughter’s ex-boyfriend
“Dear Bunmi, I’ve always had strong feelings for her ex. And often used to see him looking at me in ‘that’ kind of way”
She ‘married’ her best friend’s dad!
OPEN marriages work when one partner, usually the wife, turns a blind eye to her husband’s shenanigans. In most cases, the husband is usually careful not to push his luck by always flaunting his trophies.
