Baby-hungry single women are the reason some men are having the snip!
By Bunmi Sofola A few months into a fledging relationship, divorcee Donald was in bed with attractive, much younger partner when she whispered a proposal that punctured the mood. It wasn’t so much as actual demand as a loaded question that had Donald reconsidering the future – not only with her, but about his life in […]
Is your man taking you for granted by being a slob?
By Bunmi Sofola I was looking at some old family photographs the other day when I realised to my horror that Jude, my husband still wears the same revolting danshiki with matching trousers that he wore 12 years ago! Moaned Jesicca, a 49 year old medical doctor married to Jude, 53 and the owner of […]
Dear Bunmi, can I trust this returnee-boyfriend?
“Just as you once had to accept that he’d played away with other women, he will need to accept that you continue to sleep with your man”
Juggling lovers with the perfection of a magician!
By Bunmi Sofola A few months ago I spent a few days with a very dear friend who lives in a block of luxury flat, and noticed the occupant of the next flat to hers was new. In the past, the flat had been occupied by some noisy neighbours. It was a relief to have […]
Dear Bunmi, Mom is having affair with younger colleague
After you’ve cooled down a bit, talk it over with your mom and let her know you would be relieved if she could put a stop to the affair.
Could it be rape if it’s with your wife?!
WHEN did that man you married with such love and hope turn into a monster who couldn’t stick to his vow to ‘protect’ you because he’s now the one actually violating you? You hear about rape cases and how victims are viciously treated without recourse to any form of redress; without giving a thought to […]
Why you should ditch the booze when you’re pregnant!
By Bunmi Sofola IMAGINE when your pregnancy is scanned for the first time so you could see your precious baby growing in the womb, suddenly its whole body gives a shudder and the foetus appears to jump. Such a movement is known as the startle reflex; and the scan described above are from photographs from […]
Booming baby factory: Who’s to blame?
No one needs to be told what happens when you have unsafe sex. You may either get pregnant or contract STIs or both. Very few get away with it
My sister is pregnant for her father-in-law again
Crazy, isn’t it? That the father of a child would be his grandfather.
Does your man have the ‘love rat’ gene?!
How do you spot a love rat? The current man in your life has virtually swept you off your feet. He texts you all day, takes you to your favourite eatery from time to time, boys you little gifts and calls you at night because he can’t stop thinking of you! The first time Sandra’s […]
Juggling lovers with the perfection of a magician!‘
By Bunmi Sofola A few months ago I spent a few days with a very dear friend who lives in a block of luxury flat, and noticed ante occupant of the next flat to hers was new. In the past, the flat had been occupied by some noisy neighbours. It was a relief to have […]
