‘I regret snatching my friend’s husband’ — Reader
By Bunmi Sofola A Reader wrote: I have followed your columns way back from your Punch days when I was in the university. Most of the times, your articles are so down-to-earth they speak to me – as if you are writing about me. In one of the editions of Sunday Vanguard a few months back, […]
Dear Bunmi, my mistress flaunts her lovers
Dear Bunmi, we’d been having a sizzling relationship since then, only for her to bring in one or two lovers to her flat.
Facing a so-called best friend’s betrayal could be so heart-wrenching
By Bunmi Sofola When you need a shoulder to cry on, the first person that springs to mind is your best friend, right? Well, not necessarily. Some best friends could be as deadly as your worst enemy. That’s what Sefi found out when she was having problems with her husband. He was almost 18 years older […]
How many men after 30 years of marriage still love their wives?
MEN are the strongest allies when protecting their philandering interests. Alex, an industrialist in his 60s recognized his first son’s potential as a businessman when he made brilliant success of his secondary school exams. Getting him a place in one of the universities abroad was a doddle. As soon as he finished his masters degree in […]
Violent lover got more than he bargained for!
Arit was having a relaxed conversation with her boy friend, Jide in her bedroom when she heard some disturbing movements in her living room. Alarmed it could be armed robbers, she shushed Jide and hurried to bolt the bedroom door. Before she could, however, the door flew open, revealing an angry man looking fit to murder! […]
Couples who kiss regularly are less likely to get depressed
By Bunmi Sofola WHEN it comes to first kisses, scientists agree with those who believe in love at first sight, happy endings and the power of that first glorious embrace. That’s because, Scientists say, a kiss is much more than just a way of saying you fancy someone. It’s an efficient means of working out if […]
Married lovers are more adventurous than single ladies when it comes to having affairs — Reader
FROM time to time, I get letters from you readers that are so interesting that I feel I ought to share them with the rest of you. A few days back, a letter simply signed “Iyabode” popped up on my e-mail and I couldn’t help chuckling to myself as I read it. She wrote: “Dear Candida, […]
Why a new dad and his partner are equally important in their child’s life
By Bunmi Sofola PREGNANCY for Dads-to-be: Everything you need to know from Conception to Birth is a book currently making waves in the UK. Written by Adam Carpenter, it helps expectant and new dads get into the swing of childcare and gives as much as the new mothers – if not more! According to him, becoming […]
Wake up call to Wives: Naira power is dwindling fast, you need to adjust!
By Bunmi Sofola The joke on inflation is no longer on the working class and the poor to tighten their financial belts to the point of being squeezed to death. According to Laz, a reputable chartered accountant: “A lot of rich men’s net worth have decreased considerably in the last few years, and most of them […]
Dear Bunmi, why should I feel bad he left his wife for me?
‘Tell your busy-body friends to stick their nose somewhere else, as he did not leave his wife for you’
Are you an ‘Average’ kind of guy?!
“She was much older than me and when it was inevitable we would have sex, I told her I was a virgin and that I wasn’t well endowed”
