When revenge could be therapeutic!
By Bunmi Sofola HELL might have no furry like a woman scorned, but some have found ways of making the pain more bearable by seeking revenge. When Rele moved in with her boyfriend of 18 months, she was ecstatic. But, I warned that living together seldom lead to marriage. That where it did, the marriage […]
How to dump him without bruising his ego
By Bunmi Sofola It’s really a common problem – you have brief fling with a man. At first you thought he was great, but you went off him. He was far more interested in you than you were in him. You told him how you felt, but he’s pestering you with texts and calls and […]
Dear Bunmi, I don’t think this child is mine
Dear Bunmi, she was friends with the man when I met her some 12 years ago. But she now tells me their affair only began a year ago
No regret for consoling his best friend’s fiancée!
“… I should feel free to pop in as often as she called me that the coast was clear. It would be less suspicious if we met at their flat than for her to come to mine”
You can make your love-life sizzle again!
By Bunmi Sofola IF your love-life is flagging, you’re always advised to change your partner! A it drastic, but it could be extremely inconvenient socially but there is one thing you definitely ought to try first – that is changing the background. Many couples who have made love year after year in the same bed […]
Is the havoc caused by the myth of ‘soul-mates’ affecting your marriage?
By Bunmi Sofola THE word ‘soulmates’ seldom cropped into conversation some 15 years ago. If it did, it was in romantic novels or deeply emotional romantic films. Today the term is freely used by a lot of ‘modern’ loves. “Single women worry there is something wrong with them because they can’t find their soulmate,” observes a […]
