By Bunmi Sofola What kind of a person do you imagine when you think of a conscientious, hardworking conformist?  A proud brother or sister who shoulders responsibilities with or without encouragement?  What if you were to be asked which member of your family is the most extroverted or the naughtiest?  Do you think of your younger […]

Dear Bunmi, to teach him a lesson, I moved out for a few days. On the day I left, my husband moved another woman into our matrimonial home

By Bunmi Sofola You have been used and dumped by your partner and you’ve hurt terribly.  Now you consider your next line of action.  Should you walk away with your head held high or let your emotions get the best of you by plotting revenge?  After almost three years of living with her partner, Roy, Juyin […]

By Bunmi Sofola If your partner is a chronic alcoholic, most experts advise you to show him the door.  That only when he has reached rock bottom will he be ready to overcome his addiction to alcohol.  But what happens if that alcoholic is your father – or your mum as it was the case with […]

By Bunmi Sofola THE rainy season is fast upon us.  A few of us might skip through the season; but most of us will succumb, enduring between two and five bouts of sniffing and sneezing each year – each lasting an average of nine days.  Experts believe we spend around five years of our lives sneezing, […]